(I've been meaning to write this post for a few days, sorry!) My godson Fraser was first diagnosed with cancer when he was 9 months old. And then again at 18 months. By the time he was two his poor little body had suffered more pain than most of us will ever suffer in a lifetime. It was … [Read more...]
Yes, the inaugural Man Pit Xmas Party was DEBAUCHEROUS! So debaucherous that I have more questions than answers. It seems, in the cold light of post-hangover, that I have many dark spots of recollection. It went for about 10 hours but felt like 30mins. Subsequently I need answers... Why is there … [Read more...]
Burnt I tell you, burnt out. Both ends burnt to charcoal. You know that old saying about burning the candle at both ends, well I feel the flame from each end has met in the middle and left me as a pile of ash. How's that for a dramatic metaphor to start a post? Almost poetic. I'm exhausted. … [Read more...]
I'm back on Grindr! WOOHOO!!! Doin' the happy dance! How exciting is that! After the trauma of being banned for well over a week and I am very pleased to announce the ban has been lifted by Grindr and I am back tarting around. You can hear the cries of joy from gay-boy's iPhones throughout … [Read more...]
Such devastating news. It happened over a week ago and I've been too upset to even talk about it. My beloved Grindr has banned me and it has crushed my will to live. No warning. No discussion. Just this on my screen and heartbreak. I just woke up one morning and I started to get this … [Read more...]
The Festive Season is fraught with danger. All that booze, bars and bravado provide a slippery slope to shame and embarrassment. And if anyone knows, I do. Literally have lost count of the amount of times I've brought shame on my Saintly name over the years after one too many voddies at a Xmas … [Read more...]
I have a new friend. His name is Rami Mandow. Rami has written a beautiful account of his own life which I encourage everyone to read. He is an exceptional man; one of those men that upon meeting you are instantly in awe of. He is currently embarking on an amazing journey to tackle cyber-bullying … [Read more...]
Do you think struggling to take care of myself is a good enough reason to start auditioning for a boyfriend? This is the dilemma I am facing. I'm thinking that a boyfriend could be the solution to all my 'lifestyle issues' but not sure if thats a good enough motivation to acquire one. Please note … [Read more...]
Putting yesterday's mortifying tale to the back of our minds, there was an unbelievable amount of good about Saturday's Marriage Equality Rally. The community support was massive and so reassuring, the crowd was at times electric. It was so exciting to be a part of and to share it with some of my … [Read more...]
My friends and I gathered for breakfast before the Gay Marriage Rally on Saturday, it was a celebratory day and we were so excited that we'd have our chance to bring about great change. And as you know I've been waiting for this moment for such a long time. In our group we had a theatre nurse, … [Read more...]
Socialising!